It's funny. I see Leshar as the worst, doing things to Xander that truly squick me (even seen in only partial flashback). I see Lirowaus as bad (especially since he made Xander feel like a slave the way no one else had) but he gave Xander a bed, food, water, and he never physically harmed Xander. I see Dareh as being the best of the three... truly having feelings for his darling little stallion.

And yet, other people see the demons the other way around... and I think in many ways Xander sees things the other way around. I'm not sure, but I think Xander would rather have been purchased by Leshar (which I could not have stomached).